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Healthy couples create healthy families, which in turn nurture children who thrive in their relationships and learning environments.LEARN MORE
Harville and Helen developed and now co-lead workshops for couples several times a year.LEARN MORE
“After 18 years of marriage my husband and I are rediscovering each other's mysteries. I feel exhilarated and excited about our future together.”Margaret W., workshop participant
It is human nature to absorb both the positive and negative traits of our caregivers.
As children become more self-aware, they recognize some of their traits are the traits they dislike in their parents, and try to deny them.
People also acquire negative traits by observing their parents.
All people have a dark side to their nature, a part of their being that they try to ignore.
Our partners make us feel anxious by stirring up forbidden parts of ourselves.