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“After 18 years of marriage my husband and I are rediscovering each other's mysteries. I feel exhilarated and excited about our future together.”Margaret W., workshop participant
Growing up in different families with different life experiences has given you separate lexicons.
Even though you and your partner speak the same language, each of you dwells in an idiosyncratic world of private meanings.
In order to deepen your understanding of your partner's reality, you need to train yourself to listen and communicate more effectively.
Some of your criticisms of your partner may help you identify your own lost self.
Some of your repetitious, emotional criticisms of your partner may be an accurate description of a disowned part of yourself.