There are a variety of resources to help you, whether you want to make a good relationship great, protect a budding relationship, or if you are in conflict or on the verge of a breakup.

Books are the most accessible and affordable way for couples, singles, and parents to access the "why" and "how" of relationships, including the classic GETTING THE LOVE YOU WANT which has sold more than 2 million books worldwide. These books authored by Harville and Helen can be found at your local bookstore or library, or can be purchased through online book outlets as well as through our online store.

At Home DVD Programs take couples – at their own pace, in their own home –  through exercises and practices with a DVD. DVD programs include interviews with Harville and Helen, relationship experts and couples, and also include a step-by-step manual. DVD programs are an excellent way for couples to begin the journey with other couples who have experienced a shift in relationship.

Couples Workshops are available to help couples immerse themselves in an entire weekend of relationship strengthening. Workshops provide an excellent way for couples to protect and nurture their relationship, and they also assist couples who are in a crisis.  Current workshops include:

Zero Negativity Challenge® is a tool to help couples purge their relationships of negativity. Harville and Helen's personal story includes the negativity they've faced in their own relationship. In response, they created the Zero Negativity Challenge®. It was their moment of transformation, birthing healing and much needed renewal for their marriage.

Seeing a Certified Imago Therapist® is the most intimate and personalized way to help your personal or relationship journey. Certified Imago Therapists® have been specifically trained in Harville and Helen's Imago therapy, a highly effective and respected couples' therapy used around the world.


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