Join Harville and Helen live at an upcoming workshop! In person and virtual options available including GETTING THE LOVE YOU WANT (for couples); FINDING A LOVE TO KEEP (for singles) and HOW TO TALK WITH ANYONE ABOUT ANYTHING (for everyone).
Additionally, Harville and Helen frequently speak to professional audiences about their Imago Relationship Therapy and Safe Conversations work.
GETTING THE LOVE YOU WANT
A Couples Retreat
EXPERIENCE A LIFE-CHANGING WEEKEND IMMERSION
Join the tens of thousands of people who have experienced the work of Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt and take your relationship to the next level. In a program based on Harville and Helen’s best-selling book, Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples, experience the profound connection that heals childhood and relational wounds, activates undeveloped potential, and spurs spiritual growth.
Harville and Helen guide you and your partner toward deeper connection and joyful aliveness using Imago Relationship Therapy, their transformational approach that allows you to experience new levels of safety, empathy, and appreciation. Learn to develop the concepts and skills necessary to co-create a safe relationship, embrace conflict as an opportunity for growth, and experience a deep level of connecting.
Through both live workshop sessions and self-guided practice sessions, you and your partner will learn how to
- Develop effective new communication skills using the “Imago Dialogue”
- Resolve longstanding frustrations with compassion and ease
- Establish and maintain safety in your relationship
- Recreate the passion, attraction, and intimacy that first brought you together
- Discover a path to emotional healing and spiritual evolution through your relationship
- Experience a deep level of empathy and connection with your partner.
Couples of all gender and sexual orientations are welcome.
Schedule:
OPENING DAY 7:30–9:30 Program Session
DAILY 9:00–12:00 pm Program Session & 2:30–5:00 pm Program Session
CLOSING DAY 9:00–12:00 pm Program Session and Departure
How to Talk with Anyone about Anything
The Practice of Safe Conversations
Talking is the most dangerous thing most of us do and listening is the most infrequent. Instead of listening, we engage in “parallel monologues” about the “truth” of our different perspectives and find ourselves in conflict and polarization, rather than connection, with nearly everyone.
Conflict and polarization have been going on for centuries, with everyone, everywhere.
Instead, let’s make a shift toward safety and true connection. We will guide you to Connect with anyone, anywhere
- Replace parallel monologues by learning and practicing a relational skill called Dialogue
- Talk without criticism, listen without judgment, and connect beyond difference
This workshop is open to anyone looking to have efficient, connecting conversations with everyone: an intimate partner, a friend, a child, a colleague, or those with different political, social, and ethical backgrounds.
40th Anniversary Celebration: The Legends of Psychotherapy
December 14, 2025 | Preconference
December 15-18, 2025 | Anaheim, CA
Learn from the legends. Celebrate foundational principles. Improve your practice.
Join us in 2025 for our 40th-anniversary celebration — back in Anaheim, CA! We’ll be back and better than ever before to celebrate this triumphant milestone of the most anticipated and beloved event for psychotherapy education, alongside the greatest minds in psychotherapy. Participate in a forum that brings together the living legends in the field, plus breakout thinkers and on-the-ground professionals who will challenge you to become a more advanced clinician and reinvigorate your passion for the field. Whether you’re an experienced professional or just starting out, this event is not to be missed.
We are thrilled to present a keynote as well as two sessions! Stay tuned for further detail!
