Getting the Love You Want

Getting the Love You Want is a remarkable book—the most incisive and persuasive I have ever read on the knotty problems of marriage relationships.”

–Ann Roberts, former president, Rockefeller Family Fund

Getting the Love you Want gives couples the concepts and tools they need to achieve safety, sustain deep connection, and experience joyful aliveness. It can bring you healing, wholeness, and spiritual growth by addressing your childhood and relational wounds, and activating undeveloped potential. You and your partner can reach deeper levels by moving from an unconscious to a conscious relationship using Imago Relationship Therapy, a transformational approach that allows you to experience new levels of safety and appreciation.

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What people are saying about “Getting the Love You Want

Getting the Love You Want is a remarkable book—the most incisive and persuasive I have ever read on the knotty problems of marriage relationships.”

–Ann Roberts, former president, Rockefeller Family Fund

“This book will help any couple find the love they want hidden under all the concealing confusion of a close and intimate relationship. I have seen these principles in application and they work!”

–James A. Hall, MD

Getting the Love You Want provides a road map for partners seeking a path to intimacy and passionate friendship. This is the most practical book I have seen on the understanding of intimate relationships.”

–Marion Solomon, Ph.D.