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“After 18 years of marriage my husband and I are rediscovering each other's mysteries. I feel exhilarated and excited about our future together.”Margaret W., workshop participant
When our partners behave in ways that deviate from our idealized view of them, we have an arsenal of weapons to maintain our illusions.
We all have a number of subterranean "hot spots" in our relationships, places where our expectations of our partners collide with reality.
The most common roadblock to communication is denial: you simply refuse to believe what your partner has to say.
Growing up in different families with different life experiences has given you separate lexicons.
Even though you and your partner speak the same language, each of you dwells in an idiosyncratic world of private meanings.